1. Lack of Communication - When he doesn't seem to communicate with you effectively, then he's probably not that into you. Communication is the number one factor in a strong, healthy relationship. Communicating openly with your partner establishes common ground in a relationship. When he doesn't communicate with you, he's showing a lack of concern for you and the relationship.
2. Evasive Behavior / Avoidance - When you seem to want more out of the relationship than your partner is willing to give, such as more of his time, then, he's probably not that into you. He may begin to exhibit evasive behaviors and avoidance by making excuses for why the two of you aren't spending a lot of time together. You may begin to believe that he's just stringing you along at his leisure. Follow your gut instinct, he's probably not that into you. Don't invest a lot of time and energy in a guy who possibly has other commitments.
3. Lack of Consideration - When your partner seems to show a lack of consideration for your time or feelings, he's probably not that into you. When he plans a date with you, and he's suddenly a no-show, he's not that into you. When he begins to behave differently, such as telling you that he has last-minute emergencies even though he knows that you've gone out of your way to prepare for the date, he's probably not that into you.
4. Emotionally Distant - Some guys are emotionally distant for many reasons, perhaps previous relationships. You typically know what is out of character for your guy. When you know that he normally involves you in his plans, or he asks your advice about important decisions, and then he suddenly begins to distance himself emotionally, he's probably not that into you.
5. Selfish Disposition- When everything suddenly revolves around him and his needs, he's not that into you. He's only stringing you along at his convenience. Likewise, he's showing a lack of concern for your needs.
In summary, the signs that he's not that into you are usually staring you in the face. Most women readily recognize the signs, however, they have yet to acknowledge them and move on. When your partner begins to show any of the signs listed above, then, acknowledge them and move on. Don't try to fix him because you will be setting yourself up for disappointment.
by Aretha P. Crowder
2. Evasive Behavior / Avoidance - When you seem to want more out of the relationship than your partner is willing to give, such as more of his time, then, he's probably not that into you. He may begin to exhibit evasive behaviors and avoidance by making excuses for why the two of you aren't spending a lot of time together. You may begin to believe that he's just stringing you along at his leisure. Follow your gut instinct, he's probably not that into you. Don't invest a lot of time and energy in a guy who possibly has other commitments.
3. Lack of Consideration - When your partner seems to show a lack of consideration for your time or feelings, he's probably not that into you. When he plans a date with you, and he's suddenly a no-show, he's not that into you. When he begins to behave differently, such as telling you that he has last-minute emergencies even though he knows that you've gone out of your way to prepare for the date, he's probably not that into you.
4. Emotionally Distant - Some guys are emotionally distant for many reasons, perhaps previous relationships. You typically know what is out of character for your guy. When you know that he normally involves you in his plans, or he asks your advice about important decisions, and then he suddenly begins to distance himself emotionally, he's probably not that into you.
5. Selfish Disposition- When everything suddenly revolves around him and his needs, he's not that into you. He's only stringing you along at his convenience. Likewise, he's showing a lack of concern for your needs.
In summary, the signs that he's not that into you are usually staring you in the face. Most women readily recognize the signs, however, they have yet to acknowledge them and move on. When your partner begins to show any of the signs listed above, then, acknowledge them and move on. Don't try to fix him because you will be setting yourself up for disappointment.
by Aretha P. Crowder
